Marillac St. Vincent Fathers Answer Questions About Fatherhood for Father's Day
In honor of Father's Day, we sat down with two Marillac St. Vincent dads whose kids are enrolled in MSV's school age programs. Read on to find out what being a father really means to MSV dads!
Tony F.
Tony is the father of three amazing children. His oldest son is a sophomore in college and plays football in Arizona. Tony’s youngest son attended St. Vincent for five years and is now a junior at Lincoln Park High School and his daughter currently is in the school age program at St. Vincent.
What does fatherhood mean to you?
My definition of Fatherhood is developing ethical, moral, motivated, ambitious and independent children to adults. My definition of Fatherhood also includes instilling the mindset that you don't have to be perfect but that is what we strive for. Fatherhood is enjoying your children, embracing the moments and teaching and learning lessons in the midst of it all.
What is the most challenging part of fatherhood?
The most challenging part of Fatherhood for me is when I have to say no to something they ask. As a father, I want to give them everything they ask for but they have to have a balance. If they ask for something and my response is no, I always give an alternative way that they can earn it.
What is one life lesson you’d like to instill in your children?
The one life lesson that I want to instill in my children is knowing and accepting the consequences of your actions.
Sam O.
Sam is the father of one son who currently attends the school age program at St. Vincent.
What does fatherhood mean to you?
Fatherhood means purpose to me. It also gives me a sense of brotherhood because when you walk past another father you have a sense of connection with others who are there or have been there.
What is the most challenging part of fatherhood?
The most challenging part for me is to a certain extent is fearing that your child will be misunderstood.
What is one life lesson you’d like to instill in your child?
Patience. Be patient with the process, but also take full advantage of every opportunity. Try to balance those two things. I’m still learning that lesson myself, but if my son could master that balance that would be it.